I am glad to find someone who thinks along the same line as me if not similar..

Sometimes there's no need for excess and "the more the better" mentality doesnt apply all the time, if you can click means you can click, if cant then just leave it as that.
I dont see why people should force themselves to be NOT what they are NATUALLY and have to put on a false front to face some people in order to be in their favour? or stand to gain benefits?
I just feel that if i have a few close ones that really listen, that will be enough.
What are you trying to prove when you are so keen in "collecting" friends?
That you are popular?
That people admire you?
Boost your ego?

So in the end who gives more practical advice? Who is genuinely sympathetic for you?
Who is Truthful with you? You can gauge for yourself. If you cant then i cant help in anyway too.
What's the point in meeting up with "friends" whom you are not even enthusiastic to meet?
That you cannot be bothered how you behave in front of them?
Behaving "naturally" is good.
Behaving "excessively against your previous portrayal to others" is just a sign of rebellion.
If you are good naturedly, just be that.
WHY need to be bad cause of "bad people always get what they want" mentality?
Just think.
Do you think they are gen·u·ine·ly receiving the praises or items or whatnots or is it all just an act to keep them silent.

Sometimes what we meant well aint well taken, its up to individual interpretation. I am trying NOT to superimpose what i think onto my friends, which i am guilty of sometimes.. but i hope to be of help.

But then again, maybe i am being too nosey hahahahha

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You want things to happen, you have to MAKE it happen.
But when you try TOO hard, it will backfire. .

Once you list YOUR priorities out, its easier to see.
Once you list the goals you want to achieve then you plan the time line.
Cause sometimes its better to be selfish and think for yourself only.

hahahahahah i hope i can achieve that too. Easier said then done.