decided to update on my life :P
sat was spent stayin home rushin vcd LOL its real good i find
different from the usual korean sob fest that mum used to watch
sun was spent at pasir ris farm with my dear, looking at the little pups and small animals... but i must be sure i aint gonna buy them on a whimp.
I just realised there's alot of miniature breeds too LOL the mini maltese reallly looked adorable and the pup i was holding was smaller than my piggie!
dinner was korean ginseng soup by his mum :)
Mon was spent waiting for dear at home hee i like it when he gives me surprises like that though he had to book in very early today.
dear's now clearing leave and soon it will be his ORD parade and maybe dinner and he said will bring me along hahaha
hopefully and finally i have the chance to wear my black dress LOL
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
張國榮跨越97演唱會 - 追
追张国荣
曲：李迪文
詞：林夕
編：George Leong曲：李迪文
词：林夕
编：GeorgeLeong
這一生 也在進取 這分鐘 卻掛念誰
我會說 是唯獨你 不可失去
好風光 似幻似虛 誰明人生樂趣
我會說 為情為愛 仍然是對这一生也在进取这分钟却挂念谁
我会说是唯独你不可失去
好风光似幻似虚谁明人生乐趣
我会说为情为爱仍然是对
＊誰比你重要 成功了敗了也完全無重要
誰比你重要 狂風與暴雨都因你燃燒＊谁比你重要成功了败了也完全无重要
谁比你重要狂风与暴雨都因你燃烧
一追再追 只想追趕生命裡一分一秒
原來多麼可笑 你是真正目標
一追再追 追蹤一些生活最基本需要
原來早不缺少 WO..HA.. 一追再追只想追赶生命里一分一秒
原来多么可笑你是真正目标
一追再追追踪一些生活最基本需要
原来早不缺少WO..HA..
有了你 即使平凡卻最重要
（＠只得你 會叫我彷彿人群裡最重要）有了你即使平凡却最重要
（＠只得你会叫我仿佛人群里最重要）
好光陰 縱沒太多 一分鐘又如何
會與你 共同渡過 都不枉過
瘋戀多 錯誤更多 如能重新做過
我會說 願能為你 提前做錯好光阴纵没太多一分钟又如何
会与你共同渡过都不枉过
疯恋多错误更多如能重新做过
我会说愿能为你提前做错
Repeat ＊（＠）Repeat＊（＠）
***************
gerry's in a mellow BUT positive mood heh
the power of music, it can cause turbulence or give serenity or instill peace or uplift your mood.
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Friday, July 27, 2007
Matchbox20 "Time After Time" (Live Cover)
original is here
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ZYxsUDZQ4Q
Lying in my bed I hear the clock tick,
And think of you
Caught up in circles
Confusion is nothing new
Flashback--warm nights--
Almost left behind
Suitcases of memories,
Time after--
Sometimes you picture me--
I'm walking too far ahead
You're calling to me, I can't hear
What you've said
Then you say--go slow--
I fall behind
The second hand unwinds
Chorus:
If you're lost you can look, and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I'll be waiting
Time after time
After my picture fades and darkness has
Turned to gray
Watching through windows, you're wondering
[Time After Time lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]
If I'm OK
Secrets stolen from deep inside
The drum beats out of time
Chorus:
If you're lost you can look, and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I'll be waiting
Time after time
You said go slow,
I fall behind
The second hand unwinds
Chorus:
If you're lost you can look, and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you, I'll be waiting
Time after time
...time after time
time after time
time after time
time after time
********
and gerry is in love with all these hee
anyone seen any of these pls tell me alright? :)
Mr Men and Little Miss plushies
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
HS was saying the graduation bears look cute and we saw a HUGE one today.
ooh i have one too hahahah at my age .. no no it was bought quite a number of years back, mummy got it for me :)
how big is big?
ta da~
and no, i did not sew the balls and hang around his neck LOL
its part of his decoration -_-"
and i saw my ham hams piling on each other again
one ham ham is OBESE though tsk tsk too much cheese maybe
my fav ball of fur ~
and just for amusement
ooh i have one too hahahah at my age .. no no it was bought quite a number of years back, mummy got it for me :)
how big is big?
ta da~
and no, i did not sew the balls and hang around his neck LOL
its part of his decoration -_-"
and i saw my ham hams piling on each other again
one ham ham is OBESE though tsk tsk too much cheese maybe
my fav ball of fur ~
and just for amusement
| You Are The Hermit |
 You posses a great deal of wisdom and the ability to see people for who they are. You are always looking ahead at the future, developing visions. A loner, you tend to travel by yourself through life, seeking your own truth. You don't crave material things or fancy titles. You have no baggage. Your fortune: It's possible that there is a unknown guiding figure in your life, ready to help you. All you have to do is find this person and seek their advice. It's also possible that you need to start seeking the meaning of your own life. Either way, there's some deep thinking you need to undertake, and it needs to be done soon. |
| Your Hidden Talent |
 You have the power to persuade and influence others. You're the type of person who can turn a whole room around. The potential for great leadership is there, as long as you don't abuse it. Always remember, you have a lot more power over people than you might think! |
| You Are a Good Girl |
 You are 70% Good and 30% Bad Generally speaking, you're a very good girl. (But you don't have us totally fooled!) |
:P
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Monday, July 23, 2007
i dug out my knee-length skirt to wear for helping out during the convocation and in the end ..
the handling of us was so disorganised and uncoordinated that we waited in vain till 4 pm?
argh
but the sight of the graduating students brought out in me a bittersweet feeling..
AND
my ankle seems to be better today.
On sun, i hobbled my way to marine parade to have breakfast with my dear :P though he was insisting that i shouldnt have
BUT i wanted to go over and i like it, with katong, siglap and joo chiat at close proximity, with the various mainroads and sidelanes and quaint shophouses and refurbished ones adding lots of colours and flavour to the blend of cultures, it doesnt matter that i have to take a bus or walk long distances due to its inaccessbility.
gerry's a glutton who's always on a quest to find new food and places of interest
i finally got him to try the Cheesecake cafe with me :D and it was GOOD! solid stuff and full of flavours, even his mum and sis gave the thumbs up.
the ambience was so soothing too, with lots of fans and orange lights for the place, giving it a calming effect.
AND i saw pasta fresca nearby too, next stop!
i told him about the reviews and he gamely agreed to go there when he has the time again.
i like my guy who's adventurous and he's the one who will tease me and say i am being too "safe" and "serious" -_-"
for a not so bright monday
cheers
the handling of us was so disorganised and uncoordinated that we waited in vain till 4 pm?
argh
but the sight of the graduating students brought out in me a bittersweet feeling..
i feel proud+envious+glad+disappointed all rolled into one..
but what is done cannot be undone.. mistakes to be learnt, future yet to be decided :)
but what is done cannot be undone.. mistakes to be learnt, future yet to be decided :)
AND
my ankle seems to be better today.
yesterday it swelled quite badly maybe cause of my stubborness to travel over to dear's place
-_-"
Nothing can keep me confine hahahah not even a sprained ankle
Nothing can keep me confine hahahah not even a sprained ankle
On sun, i hobbled my way to marine parade to have breakfast with my dear :P though he was insisting that i shouldnt have
BUT i wanted to go over and i like it, with katong, siglap and joo chiat at close proximity, with the various mainroads and sidelanes and quaint shophouses and refurbished ones adding lots of colours and flavour to the blend of cultures, it doesnt matter that i have to take a bus or walk long distances due to its inaccessbility.
gerry's a glutton who's always on a quest to find new food and places of interest
i finally got him to try the Cheesecake cafe with me :D and it was GOOD! solid stuff and full of flavours, even his mum and sis gave the thumbs up.
the ambience was so soothing too, with lots of fans and orange lights for the place, giving it a calming effect.
AND i saw pasta fresca nearby too, next stop!
i told him about the reviews and he gamely agreed to go there when he has the time again.
i like my guy who's adventurous and he's the one who will tease me and say i am being too "safe" and "serious" -_-"
for a not so bright monday
cheers
may they have a bright future ahead
Sunday, July 22, 2007
Saturday, July 21, 2007
speaking of having to stay at home
just realised i sprained my ankle.. from what? i forgot -_-" careless me
i always have bruises or cuts without knowing LOL
so now hobbling around the place
hopefully will be well enough for the convocation on mon
hopefully it doesnt dampen my mood too much
it aint a good feelin ..
just realised i sprained my ankle.. from what? i forgot -_-" careless me
i always have bruises or cuts without knowing LOL
so now hobbling around the place
hopefully will be well enough for the convocation on mon
hopefully it doesnt dampen my mood too much
it aint a good feelin ..
Alot of things had happened within this week, with or without me knowing, whether i like it or not.
Knowing doesnt make me feel better cause knowing doesnt ease the situation or knowing it yet i'm helpless to ease the burden of the one who said it, and i feel kinda bad
i do hope things get better, and the situations that have been bothering ppl i hold dear.
i do hope that it will not have to resort to third parties intervention.
Cause in the end, only the parties involved can redeem their own actions or untangle the situations they are in.
Myself
must ditch that opinionated side of me, not becoming weak, becoming blendable and it will cause me less mental anguish
cause since i cant change the way how the OTHER party do or say or handle things, i can only suggest and advice or things fail, have to find a way to get around it then
i can only readjust myself
i can only reflect upon my own actions
and i do not have to resent the surroundings i am faced with
cause if resentment rears its ugly head, my emotional side will lead while logical side will take a backseat and it aint be very nice
yet i do not have to resort to wearing masks to face the world
i am still me.
i can still face myself and i still answerable for myself
**********
gerry will be home alone again tsk tsk
what to do what to do?
Knowing doesnt make me feel better cause knowing doesnt ease the situation or knowing it yet i'm helpless to ease the burden of the one who said it, and i feel kinda bad
i do hope things get better, and the situations that have been bothering ppl i hold dear.
i do hope that it will not have to resort to third parties intervention.
Cause in the end, only the parties involved can redeem their own actions or untangle the situations they are in.
Myself
must ditch that opinionated side of me, not becoming weak, becoming blendable and it will cause me less mental anguish
cause since i cant change the way how the OTHER party do or say or handle things, i can only suggest and advice or things fail, have to find a way to get around it then
i can only readjust myself
i can only reflect upon my own actions
and i do not have to resent the surroundings i am faced with
cause if resentment rears its ugly head, my emotional side will lead while logical side will take a backseat and it aint be very nice
yet i do not have to resort to wearing masks to face the world
i am still me.
i can still face myself and i still answerable for myself
**********
gerry will be home alone again tsk tsk
what to do what to do?
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
From Steph's blog
http://www.paulgoldin.com/colorgenics.htm
Utmost in your mind is success. You are constantly seeking stimulation and a life full of experience. You are trying to 'grow' and above all you need to develop freely and to shake off the shackles of self-doubt. You are an enthusiastic individual, full of life with the desire to live intensely. You like contact with others and are enthusiastic by nature. You are receptive to anything new, modern or intriguing. Your interests are many and you are likely to expand your fields of activities. You are optimistic about the future and you deserve every success because deep down you are a 'winner'.
You are a very warm and emotional individual but unfortunately in the past too many people have taken advantage of this sensitive trait. You need aesthetic surroundings, or an equally sensitive and understanding partner with whom to share a warm understanding.
The way things are, you feel that you are stuck in a rut and there is not much you can do about it. You feel frustrated and inhibited but if you can find a way to let yourself go, you may find that things aren't quite so bad as perhaps you thought they were. One consolation is that since you are an extremely emotional individual, with the right person you may be able to release some of that frustration and tension with some mutual tender loving care.
You are being unduly influenced by the situation that is all around you. You do not like the feeling of loneliness and whatever it is that seems to separate you from others. You know that life can be wonderful and you are anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to live it to the full. You therefore resent any restriction or limitations that are being imposed on you and you insist on going it alone.
You don't like authority and you rebel against all forms of limitation. You are your own person and you intend to stay that way and to get on in the world simply by your hard work and determination.
try it!
http://www.paulgoldin.com/colorgenics.htm
Utmost in your mind is success. You are constantly seeking stimulation and a life full of experience. You are trying to 'grow' and above all you need to develop freely and to shake off the shackles of self-doubt. You are an enthusiastic individual, full of life with the desire to live intensely. You like contact with others and are enthusiastic by nature. You are receptive to anything new, modern or intriguing. Your interests are many and you are likely to expand your fields of activities. You are optimistic about the future and you deserve every success because deep down you are a 'winner'.
You are a very warm and emotional individual but unfortunately in the past too many people have taken advantage of this sensitive trait. You need aesthetic surroundings, or an equally sensitive and understanding partner with whom to share a warm understanding.
The way things are, you feel that you are stuck in a rut and there is not much you can do about it. You feel frustrated and inhibited but if you can find a way to let yourself go, you may find that things aren't quite so bad as perhaps you thought they were. One consolation is that since you are an extremely emotional individual, with the right person you may be able to release some of that frustration and tension with some mutual tender loving care.
You are being unduly influenced by the situation that is all around you. You do not like the feeling of loneliness and whatever it is that seems to separate you from others. You know that life can be wonderful and you are anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to live it to the full. You therefore resent any restriction or limitations that are being imposed on you and you insist on going it alone.
You don't like authority and you rebel against all forms of limitation. You are your own person and you intend to stay that way and to get on in the world simply by your hard work and determination.
try it!
Monday, July 16, 2007
Gerry just reached home and is tired BUT
we watched Harry Potter
had Kenny Rogers (last time was BEFORE Marina underwent renovation)
bought new slippers(previous one gave way enroute cecilia's place)
felt relaxed and happy with my love
no matter how much i tease him, no matter how cranky or paranoid i get
he manage to ease my nerves
though we have our miscom, i feel we are getting better
he's the joker
i'm the serious one
we gave each other more options in life
:)
Sunday, July 15, 2007
horoscope for the week says..
Heightened Emotions
The depth of your emotional intensity is well known, GERALDINE, and you take a very passionate interest in the world around you. You are able to put your whole soul into any cause that means something to you, and when you decide you want to devote your time to ending poverty, hunger, or any other social ill, you do it to your utmost capacity.
On Tuesday, the Moon conjuncts Venus in your sector of groups, organizations, and associations, and you will begin to work very hard for a cause that you sincerely believe in. This cause is very close to your heart for one reason or another, and you are happy to take time away from your busy schedule to make sure that you are able to contribute fully to it.
On Sunday, you have a potent power day when the Moon enters your sign of Scorpio and your sector of self, and you will wear your heart on your sleeve for the entire world to see. Your emotions will be readily available to you, and on tap, and keep in mind that you might have a tendency to overreact to the people, places, and events you come in contact with due to your heightened emotions.
***********
past activities for the weekends
On Sat, went visiting grandpa in the morn then popped over to Bukit Panjang plaza with mum to queue for the donuts..
ITS GOOD!
better than the ones at VIVO..
BUT i only liked the chocolate ones so i might be going there soon again ...
anyone interested? :P
then went JP with mum to meet little sis and had a late lunch then did a little shopping.
Bought myself a hairband and a waterbottle and its all red hahahah i love red
then went back home to laze around
SUN was basically a lazin day.
Brought mum out for breakfast then went out to OLD Airport road food centre for lunch.
It has just been renovated and there were so MANY stalls with SUCH LONG QUEUES..
tsk tsk
BUT HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!
there's the chicken wings and the otah and the famous prawn mee and char kway teo and kway chap!!
i was struck... with confusion..ahahhaha
any kakis for a food trip soon?
gerry is takin a break
shall resume full bloggin soon..
i read about so many things and i wanted to blog about so many things BUT cant get my mind to work..
to find the right words to form the right sentences..
in short topics circulating in my mind now
-slavery in brick kilns
-wife and 16 yr old lover charged with murder
-gender discrimination in china ESP Hainan + abandoned girls + a couple with a BIG HEART
i was watching the HISTORY channel at grandpa's place.. it was showin the Rwanada GENOCIDE..
maybe i shall read more and do a little report on it :)
and maybe i should finish my DAN BROWN book -_-"
haven gotten to finish the book since last yr..
and alfred is bringing me to gym LOL
finally someone dragging me to gym..
i cant seem to get my lazy ass out of the house to workout
dear commented i lost weight and he sounds kinda disappointed -_-"
well well
i am aiming for an M please
************
AND!
i am so keen on this ..
anybody else interested? :P more ppl more varities to share mah
http://www.canele.com.sg/about.htm
yes
gerry is a serious chocoholic.. its tedious to watch my weight at times
Heightened Emotions
The depth of your emotional intensity is well known, GERALDINE, and you take a very passionate interest in the world around you. You are able to put your whole soul into any cause that means something to you, and when you decide you want to devote your time to ending poverty, hunger, or any other social ill, you do it to your utmost capacity.
On Tuesday, the Moon conjuncts Venus in your sector of groups, organizations, and associations, and you will begin to work very hard for a cause that you sincerely believe in. This cause is very close to your heart for one reason or another, and you are happy to take time away from your busy schedule to make sure that you are able to contribute fully to it.
On Sunday, you have a potent power day when the Moon enters your sign of Scorpio and your sector of self, and you will wear your heart on your sleeve for the entire world to see. Your emotions will be readily available to you, and on tap, and keep in mind that you might have a tendency to overreact to the people, places, and events you come in contact with due to your heightened emotions.
***********
past activities for the weekends
On Sat, went visiting grandpa in the morn then popped over to Bukit Panjang plaza with mum to queue for the donuts..
ITS GOOD!
better than the ones at VIVO..
BUT i only liked the chocolate ones so i might be going there soon again ...
anyone interested? :P
then went JP with mum to meet little sis and had a late lunch then did a little shopping.
Bought myself a hairband and a waterbottle and its all red hahahah i love red
then went back home to laze around
SUN was basically a lazin day.
Brought mum out for breakfast then went out to OLD Airport road food centre for lunch.
It has just been renovated and there were so MANY stalls with SUCH LONG QUEUES..
tsk tsk
BUT HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!
there's the chicken wings and the otah and the famous prawn mee and char kway teo and kway chap!!
i was struck... with confusion..ahahhaha
any kakis for a food trip soon?
gerry is takin a break
shall resume full bloggin soon..
i read about so many things and i wanted to blog about so many things BUT cant get my mind to work..
to find the right words to form the right sentences..
in short topics circulating in my mind now
-slavery in brick kilns
-wife and 16 yr old lover charged with murder
-gender discrimination in china ESP Hainan + abandoned girls + a couple with a BIG HEART
i was watching the HISTORY channel at grandpa's place.. it was showin the Rwanada GENOCIDE..
maybe i shall read more and do a little report on it :)
and maybe i should finish my DAN BROWN book -_-"
haven gotten to finish the book since last yr..
and alfred is bringing me to gym LOL
finally someone dragging me to gym..
i cant seem to get my lazy ass out of the house to workout
dear commented i lost weight and he sounds kinda disappointed -_-"
well well
i am aiming for an M please
************
AND!
i am so keen on this ..
anybody else interested? :P more ppl more varities to share mah
http://www.canele.com.sg/about.htm
yes
gerry is a serious chocoholic.. its tedious to watch my weight at times
Friday, July 13, 2007
And to my dear friend, if only words and emtions can be sieved out, aint life be better?
we dont have to feel the angst or the crudeness of the words around us..
Mika "Relax Take It Easy"
the week had been rough
do rest well.
when i am feeling mellow, MIka always never fail to perk me up
enjoy~
have a good weekend!
we dont have to feel the angst or the crudeness of the words around us..
Mika "Relax Take It Easy"
the week had been rough
do rest well.
when i am feeling mellow, MIka always never fail to perk me up
enjoy~
have a good weekend!
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
sigh... i still cant manage to get the lighting right with Picassa...
it looks kinda yellowish due to my spotlights..
oh yar.. my living room is made of 16 spotlights LOL
suppose to be peach crystals and white pearls.. tsk tsk
my guy in uniform... i like.. :D
the UNIFORM
its all worth the time spent WITHOUT him around me
Monday, July 09, 2007
maybe i should update some of the "normal" things i do with my days hahahah
went out with friends to spotlight alst thursday to look at artncrafts stuff..i am always having "itchy hand" sydrome. Cant stop myself from fiddling with some projects all the time LOL
its only a matter of whether i want to continue or have new inspirations for new works or not.
so i stocked up on papers, ribbons, stickers and some charms..
charms for sharon
papers, ribbons and stickers for my scrapbook
heh yes.. finally touching my scrapbook again.
my guy bought a real scrapbooking album for me some time ago, couldnt let it go to waste ya?
so did my second page on sat night heh
Charms for sharon cause she said she like my sea theme bracelet that i always wear.
i was so happy and excited looking at the WHOLE WIDE array of artncrafts stuff.. basically the only thing that was stopping me from buying was the price.. -_-"
Anyway, had a minor tiff with him on thursday.
i think i still get cranky over slightest stuff but trying to control.
On friday, did OT then was on the way back when he decided to drop over my place after his parade, all ad hoc but that was sweet of him :)
sat did some jewellery making, packed the house then went to a colleague's housewarming then back home for dinner with parents and back to scrapbooking.
And he popped by again after camp.
i admit.
we are a sticky couple :P anyway
my house nearer to his camp hahaha just nice an excuse
Sun we went to watch TRANSFORMERS !!
it was really darn good.. worth the wait.. cause the afternoon slots were gone DESPITE me booking in the morning so had to wait for hrs for the 640 evening slot.
like relieving my childhood again except graphics is much more advanced and me.. being so much older.. LOL
i remembered i grew up on seaseme street, carebears, Xmen, batman, smurfs and transformers and warner bros cartoons LOL
ANyway back to work, in slippers cause my feet were bitten real bad by my shoes.. AGAIN
i hate it.
colleague always tease me that i have a "lady's feet" meaning delicate feet.
i cant help it if my feet cannot stand the pressure and I CANNOT tolerate pain very well.
so, blisters left and right side of BOTH feet and the back was cut real badly too.
Anyway i am glad we survived and celebrated our 47th mth anniversary.
We did have some misunderstandings and our miscommunications along the way but i do hope everything turns out well.
And so the task ahead for me?
How to celebrate our 4th year but sadly we cant celebrate on the actual day.
Sometimes it gets frustrating to NOT be able to get a reply whenever i msged him cause of his endless rehearsal and parades but thinking on a more positive note, at least he's doing something "honourable" for his country -_-"
anyway, less ramblings..
i am feelin so inspired for more charm jewellery making..
and i do customerization too hahahah
anyone interested?
went out with friends to spotlight alst thursday to look at artncrafts stuff..i am always having "itchy hand" sydrome. Cant stop myself from fiddling with some projects all the time LOL
its only a matter of whether i want to continue or have new inspirations for new works or not.
so i stocked up on papers, ribbons, stickers and some charms..
charms for sharon
papers, ribbons and stickers for my scrapbook
heh yes.. finally touching my scrapbook again.
my guy bought a real scrapbooking album for me some time ago, couldnt let it go to waste ya?
so did my second page on sat night heh
Charms for sharon cause she said she like my sea theme bracelet that i always wear.
i was so happy and excited looking at the WHOLE WIDE array of artncrafts stuff.. basically the only thing that was stopping me from buying was the price.. -_-"
Anyway, had a minor tiff with him on thursday.
i think i still get cranky over slightest stuff but trying to control.
On friday, did OT then was on the way back when he decided to drop over my place after his parade, all ad hoc but that was sweet of him :)
sat did some jewellery making, packed the house then went to a colleague's housewarming then back home for dinner with parents and back to scrapbooking.
And he popped by again after camp.
i admit.
we are a sticky couple :P anyway
my house nearer to his camp hahaha just nice an excuse
Sun we went to watch TRANSFORMERS !!
it was really darn good.. worth the wait.. cause the afternoon slots were gone DESPITE me booking in the morning so had to wait for hrs for the 640 evening slot.
like relieving my childhood again except graphics is much more advanced and me.. being so much older.. LOL
i remembered i grew up on seaseme street, carebears, Xmen, batman, smurfs and transformers and warner bros cartoons LOL
ANyway back to work, in slippers cause my feet were bitten real bad by my shoes.. AGAIN
i hate it.
colleague always tease me that i have a "lady's feet" meaning delicate feet.
i cant help it if my feet cannot stand the pressure and I CANNOT tolerate pain very well.
so, blisters left and right side of BOTH feet and the back was cut real badly too.
Anyway i am glad we survived and celebrated our 47th mth anniversary.
We did have some misunderstandings and our miscommunications along the way but i do hope everything turns out well.
And so the task ahead for me?
How to celebrate our 4th year but sadly we cant celebrate on the actual day.
Sometimes it gets frustrating to NOT be able to get a reply whenever i msged him cause of his endless rehearsal and parades but thinking on a more positive note, at least he's doing something "honourable" for his country -_-"
anyway, less ramblings..
i am feelin so inspired for more charm jewellery making..
and i do customerization too hahahah
anyone interested?
Saturday, July 07, 2007
scrapbk pages
i love papers~
second page of my scrapbook done ..
its kept neatly in my album already.
i need more photos!
second page of my scrapbook done ..
its kept neatly in my album already.
i need more photos!
seacharm bracelet PLUS earrings for sharon
hmm.. dunno why i cant seen to get a white background, colour off..pardon me again ..
till i get a better picture editing tool..
now back to fiddling with my hobbies heh
Wednesday, July 04, 2007
another post i found amusing.. BY A GUY
"All right, since we are saying that guys should pay for first few dates in one of the threads. Let's be fair to the guys. How do we guys know if the girls that we are dating is only interested in leeching us and not dating?
In other words, how do we find out that the girls we are dating are only interested in free lunch/dinner and free movie tickets paid by the guys? They are never interested in you, they are only interested in getting free food and movie tickets."
read all abt the other responses here~
http://www.flowerpod.com.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=38843
...
someone said .. "If a man is stingy with his money, he's stingy with his emotions."
i found something similar online.
ref: http://www.sacred-texts.com/cfu/sz/tasj2006.htm
"If one is stingy of money still more will he be stingy of life"
which i simply translates to
if you can be stingy with money which is something so practical aka "shen wai wu"
it only meant to show the state of your willingness to share with others your more "personal aspects" such as your emotions with people, affections and care towards people.
no?
***************
I might be more of a feminist, i dont like guys to pay for me till they insist they want to pay.
BUT i like to have lots of attention and PREFER to be provided for if i am interested in the suitor too.
i do not know about other gals.
Some Prefer the guy to pay during courting, dating and after marriage.
Some prefer to have more independence and pay for themselves.
Its a matter of choice, not so much of expectations from society.
There's no standard protocol to me.
"How to know if the gals are NOT leeching?"
i do not know.
Some guys dont mind, some will mind.
Some are quite to spot, some are not.
Depends on the guys themselves, whether they catch any hints of "returning" feelings or interests in them.
If not just treat it as a wasted investment and move on.
"All right, since we are saying that guys should pay for first few dates in one of the threads. Let's be fair to the guys. How do we guys know if the girls that we are dating is only interested in leeching us and not dating?
In other words, how do we find out that the girls we are dating are only interested in free lunch/dinner and free movie tickets paid by the guys? They are never interested in you, they are only interested in getting free food and movie tickets."
read all abt the other responses here~
http://www.flowerpod.com.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=38843
...
someone said .. "If a man is stingy with his money, he's stingy with his emotions."
i found something similar online.
ref: http://www.sacred-texts.com/cfu/sz/tasj2006.htm
"If one is stingy of money still more will he be stingy of life"
which i simply translates to
if you can be stingy with money which is something so practical aka "shen wai wu"
it only meant to show the state of your willingness to share with others your more "personal aspects" such as your emotions with people, affections and care towards people.
no?
***************
I might be more of a feminist, i dont like guys to pay for me till they insist they want to pay.
BUT i like to have lots of attention and PREFER to be provided for if i am interested in the suitor too.
i do not know about other gals.
Some Prefer the guy to pay during courting, dating and after marriage.
Some prefer to have more independence and pay for themselves.
Its a matter of choice, not so much of expectations from society.
There's no standard protocol to me.
"How to know if the gals are NOT leeching?"
i do not know.
Some guys dont mind, some will mind.
Some are quite to spot, some are not.
Depends on the guys themselves, whether they catch any hints of "returning" feelings or interests in them.
If not just treat it as a wasted investment and move on.
something i find amusing..
i am gonna copy and paste from the forum .. not flaming though
from FP
http://www.flowerpod.com.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=38818
a girl posted this qn.
"hey frens ,
this is onli my opinion .. n i welcome all of urs ...
2 mi being friends with other ppl esp opposite sex doesn't have to b whether ur attach or single .. i've come across guys who onli 1 2 b fren wit girls who r single .. wen they no e gal is attach , they will not 1 2 b fren wit em more cuz dun 1 2 interrupt e gal's relationship with her SO .. another reason given that, the SO doesn't care and doesn't love her anymore so let her b free n meet other guys .. i find this stupid reason .. no offence to male podders out there .. i mean, if a girl n her SO trusted each other - which is e most important thing in r/s - den e girl can haf freedom of meetin' new ppl as long she no where her limit is . u no ?
if this is how friendship is gonna b , den e girls have to lie abt their r/s status juz to no more guys .. right ? or not just guys , maybe girls .. who no .
share ur views .. thx"
Do you understand what she was trying to say?
Obviously alot of people dont.
some replies
"i don't really understand your writing"
"Hi threadstarter, I would appreciate if you type in more sensible style. Anyway, I can understand your agony. Many guys here feel that it is not possible to be friends with other opposite sex when they are attached. Perhaps they feel that the bfs or hubby would be jealous or misunderstood them. Anyway, majority hope that the females are singles.
However, that is not the true. And many good ones are taken. And unless the guys are mature or they would not be able to handle well the relationship with the females.
Anyway, why lie unless if you feel that the guys are not mature enough to handle your friendships well. So get other friends lah, no need to lie and be dishonest about your present relationship."
and the reply from the person who posted the question?
"hey all..
sorri if i dun type to well .. but thanks to those who understood wat i'm tryin' to say .. i m proud to haf a stead of 3 yrs .. he himself got to no more girls by tellin' em dat he's single .. well i read somewhere in tis forum dat those who lie abt their status mean they're not proud of their r/s status .. so anyway, he doesn't stay too long with those girls for whatever reason ..
whenever a guy give me those reason, i presume they wan sex frm me .. i'm being honest .. but that's just how i understand .. i mean, y wouldn't they wan to be friend with mi even if i have a stead ..
well thanks for the reply though .. "
Ha?!
tell me how NOT TO BE AMUSE
and someone's reply that made her kept quiet
"i dun understand why ur "stead" of 3 yrs need to lie to girls that he's single... dun you think it's fishy?? i mean you've read it in another thread. and i suppose you shld understand that most guys who doesnt want to admit that they are in a relationship is becos they wanna know other girls.. makin the other girl think tt tis guy is single so that HE will stand a better chance at being "frens" with the girl? .. i presume you're ok with tt??? you think ther's nothing wrong with your "stead" not admittin to a relationship? if your relationship is 3 mths.. i can understand... but 3 yrs?!! and still claim singlehood.... erm.... wat's the purpose of bein in a relationship?
"whenever a guy give me those reason, i presume they wan sex frm me .. i'm being honest .. but that's just how i understand .. i mean, y wouldn't they wan to be friend with mi even if i have a stead .. "
R u tryin to say tt whenever a guy who claims tt he's SINGLE and wans to be FRENS with you, means he wants SEX????? if yes... issit tt exactly wat your "stead" is doin??? so which means he wants to hv sex with other girls? u ok with tt?? think abt it girl.."
**********
simply put, Why need to disguise your status?
single means single
attached means attached
Why need to lie to make new friends?
Why cant be upfront when people ask about your status?
Why the guys think that status is a HINDRANCE..to friendship?
i have only one word to say.
"CHILDISH"
i just take it that the guys cant handle a PLATONIC relationship.. why make things so complicated?
Does that mean than being attached must have all same gender friends?
Not possibly so.
However you also need to know your boundaries too.
i am gonna copy and paste from the forum .. not flaming though
from FP
http://www.flowerpod.com.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=38818
a girl posted this qn.
"hey frens ,
this is onli my opinion .. n i welcome all of urs ...
2 mi being friends with other ppl esp opposite sex doesn't have to b whether ur attach or single .. i've come across guys who onli 1 2 b fren wit girls who r single .. wen they no e gal is attach , they will not 1 2 b fren wit em more cuz dun 1 2 interrupt e gal's relationship with her SO .. another reason given that, the SO doesn't care and doesn't love her anymore so let her b free n meet other guys .. i find this stupid reason .. no offence to male podders out there .. i mean, if a girl n her SO trusted each other - which is e most important thing in r/s - den e girl can haf freedom of meetin' new ppl as long she no where her limit is . u no ?
if this is how friendship is gonna b , den e girls have to lie abt their r/s status juz to no more guys .. right ? or not just guys , maybe girls .. who no .
share ur views .. thx"
Do you understand what she was trying to say?
Obviously alot of people dont.
some replies
"i don't really understand your writing"
"Hi threadstarter, I would appreciate if you type in more sensible style. Anyway, I can understand your agony. Many guys here feel that it is not possible to be friends with other opposite sex when they are attached. Perhaps they feel that the bfs or hubby would be jealous or misunderstood them. Anyway, majority hope that the females are singles.
However, that is not the true. And many good ones are taken. And unless the guys are mature or they would not be able to handle well the relationship with the females.
Anyway, why lie unless if you feel that the guys are not mature enough to handle your friendships well. So get other friends lah, no need to lie and be dishonest about your present relationship."
and the reply from the person who posted the question?
"hey all..
sorri if i dun type to well .. but thanks to those who understood wat i'm tryin' to say .. i m proud to haf a stead of 3 yrs .. he himself got to no more girls by tellin' em dat he's single .. well i read somewhere in tis forum dat those who lie abt their status mean they're not proud of their r/s status .. so anyway, he doesn't stay too long with those girls for whatever reason ..
whenever a guy give me those reason, i presume they wan sex frm me .. i'm being honest .. but that's just how i understand .. i mean, y wouldn't they wan to be friend with mi even if i have a stead ..
well thanks for the reply though .. "
Ha?!
tell me how NOT TO BE AMUSE
and someone's reply that made her kept quiet
"i dun understand why ur "stead" of 3 yrs need to lie to girls that he's single... dun you think it's fishy?? i mean you've read it in another thread. and i suppose you shld understand that most guys who doesnt want to admit that they are in a relationship is becos they wanna know other girls.. makin the other girl think tt tis guy is single so that HE will stand a better chance at being "frens" with the girl? .. i presume you're ok with tt??? you think ther's nothing wrong with your "stead" not admittin to a relationship? if your relationship is 3 mths.. i can understand... but 3 yrs?!! and still claim singlehood.... erm.... wat's the purpose of bein in a relationship?
"whenever a guy give me those reason, i presume they wan sex frm me .. i'm being honest .. but that's just how i understand .. i mean, y wouldn't they wan to be friend with mi even if i have a stead .. "
R u tryin to say tt whenever a guy who claims tt he's SINGLE and wans to be FRENS with you, means he wants SEX????? if yes... issit tt exactly wat your "stead" is doin??? so which means he wants to hv sex with other girls? u ok with tt?? think abt it girl.."
**********
simply put, Why need to disguise your status?
single means single
attached means attached
Why need to lie to make new friends?
Why cant be upfront when people ask about your status?
Why the guys think that status is a HINDRANCE..to friendship?
i have only one word to say.
"CHILDISH"
i just take it that the guys cant handle a PLATONIC relationship.. why make things so complicated?
Does that mean than being attached must have all same gender friends?
Not possibly so.
However you also need to know your boundaries too.
Tuesday, July 03, 2007
Before i can even see the money from GST credits.. it's almost depleted.. NOT ON SHOPPING or other MISC EXPENSES!
not even on myself..
i spent it on Microsoft Office and Anti-virus softwares for my desktop.. which is running on VISTA.. which CANNOT DL AND RUN programs from the net or unoriginal stuff.. argh!!
and so yar.. all original programs.. and their price sting
thinking of it.. at least i dont have to dig my own pockets..
this desktop is squeezin me dry
and... i wanna do treatment to my hair.. so dry and brittle.. any kind souls any recommendation?
and thinking of it.. i am very careful with my facial pdts now.. sigh.. had a rash outbreak due to using Garnier.. which NEVER happened before with any facial products that i had used.
maybe my skin becoming more sensitive?
aging maybe -_-"
never compromise on the quality of the stuff you use on your face.
**************************
not even on myself..
i spent it on Microsoft Office and Anti-virus softwares for my desktop.. which is running on VISTA.. which CANNOT DL AND RUN programs from the net or unoriginal stuff.. argh!!
and so yar.. all original programs.. and their price sting
thinking of it.. at least i dont have to dig my own pockets..
this desktop is squeezin me dry
and... i wanna do treatment to my hair.. so dry and brittle.. any kind souls any recommendation?
and thinking of it.. i am very careful with my facial pdts now.. sigh.. had a rash outbreak due to using Garnier.. which NEVER happened before with any facial products that i had used.
maybe my skin becoming more sensitive?
aging maybe -_-"
never compromise on the quality of the stuff you use on your face.
**************************
Monday, July 02, 2007
i dont mind bringing different groups of friends together although i prefer to keep the different groups seperate.
i just feel its easier to talk that way, at least the topics are common or we have common friends within the group and i dont have to divide my attention to cater to the different groups.
i prefer to give undivided attention to each group or individual i meet up with.
i know its a good way to introduce people across different groups but sometimes that's when situations arise.
it can be for the better or worse.
i dont mind introducing my friends BUT IF I DO know you are trying to make use of me to get to my friends to make use of them for your own interests..
i'll have some words for you.
expanding your social circle?
friend poachin?
friend leeching?
depends on how you handle the situation.
i just feel its easier to talk that way, at least the topics are common or we have common friends within the group and i dont have to divide my attention to cater to the different groups.
i prefer to give undivided attention to each group or individual i meet up with.
i know its a good way to introduce people across different groups but sometimes that's when situations arise.
it can be for the better or worse.
i dont mind introducing my friends BUT IF I DO know you are trying to make use of me to get to my friends to make use of them for your own interests..
i'll have some words for you.
expanding your social circle?
friend poachin?
friend leeching?
depends on how you handle the situation.
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