placid gfs

read xiaxue's post WEAK WOMEN ..

and i actually agree with her LOL
not a 100% at least 75%
with reference to that gal involved
THINK WOMEN ARE WEAK

personally i hate being a WALLFLOWER
FOR FUCK WOULD I WAN TO STAND THERE AND LOOK PRETTY

come on
u are yourself
your bf is your bf
u two are together BUT it doesnt mean u have to be HIS SHADOW OR just being a TAG ALONG
wtf
pls stand up to yourself

the last thing i wan to do when i meet his friends is to be a wallflower
the pt of followin along IS NOT TO BE HIS SHADOW
FUCKIN WASTE OF TIME ISNT IT?

well tats me
i try to befriend his friends or strike some conversations
so its easier to get along
we might not be close at least when my guy is busy i can always chat with the others
i dun mind being a looker for a SHORT WHILE

he knows it
i dun like certain stuff and he doesnt force me to do it..
we have vastly different hobbies
but it doesnt mean we dun have common hobbies
hobbies are somethin u LIKE TO DO
not to "tag along with the guy" to do

a sentence from XX's blog

"Eric's girlfriend has been sitting quietly beside him for around, I say, 7 hours? or so, WATCHING HIM PLAY DOTA AND MJ PLACIDLY."

I can only say
the gf has real good patience
i will be EXTREMELY BORED to see a guy play game for so many hrs LOL
was NEVER THE GAMER
hahahaha my patience runs thin easily
longest stretch i ever play a game was for 3 mths? and it was not even everyday
its either U join him or do other stuff do just sit there keep quiet

and the bastard actually said such thing to such a demure and patient gf

"Eric hollered suddenly, in front of 8 people or so, "Next time if you want to sleep don't come at all ok? Very irritating!"

In a super pissed off voice!"

serious
if i am Eric's friend, i would give him a tongue lashin!
i hate guys who belittle women
thought gals are playthins or docile issit?
when u have such a good gf
pls praise your gal
make her feel important
she's accomapanyin u at least give her credit for it
dun scream at her cause u are a fuckin bad mood

i accompanyin HIM to do alot of things BUT i learnt from HIM and it became things that i know and get to do myself
i dun wan it be "HIS" things only
i dun wan to be excluded from HIS life

unless it really somethin i do not like LOL
thats another story

there are stuff a couple can do
there are stuff which FRIENDS can do

another thing abt sporean guys
they have a "GOLDEN MOUTH"
pls be expressive
if you love a gal
tell her how much she meant to u
make her feel it
if your gf dressed up for u
praise her efforts
if she takes the effort to make u stuff
treasure it, display it
if she takes the effort to buy u stuff
accept it even though it might not be to your likin
its the THOUGHTS

i know wat it meant to be a wallflower
i will not keep quiet and HE knows it
hahahahah

i know kaye's referrin me to "Ms asshole-can-change"

doesnt sound nice
but hey its optimistic alright

there had been incidents that made them hate each other to the guts
those who know will know those who do not know i will not elaborate

but i feel HE has been changin for the better...
i know it will take time
i dunno whether it will be back to square one after he run out of steam or patience
but i know he's takin the effort to change

i know my limits
i wan my freedom
i wan my friends
i wan my own personal time
i wan my own individuality

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had been alienated from my friends with my ex
been too dependent on him
for companionship, for emotional support
i will not be weak anymore
i will make sure i can survive very well on my own