family VS FH

i lifted this from a forum

"SO and I plans to get married.. but have a gut feeling dad don like him very much..
actually i am nt really concerned.. coz im the one getting married to SO..i don care what others care actually. I don think dad will object if we are tog, but SO seems to dislike him as well.. and i told him he does nt to see my dad often anyway,so i don see the prob??

I am very sure that this will nt affect our r/s. . but i am worried my SO thinks otherwise.. how can i assure him that nothing will affect us.. i told SO nt to care abt my dad..but he seems pretty upset( we are still tog.. but im worry it will affect him)

How can i make my SO understand that what my family feels is nt impt to me.. afterall.. im da one wif my SO..

do u ple hav same prob?? i dono why its so hard to get dads to like their daughter's bf??? everyone ard me seems to hav this prob as well.. my cousin's dad dislikes her SO as well.. haii

jus a thought la..can get married even if parent don consent right???"

how childish can you get?
family not important?
she'll live to regret her decisions if she ever get ahead with her thinking
why cant she just try to make the two parties like each other then?
there must be some sort of compromise that can be done..
or make create opportunities to disarm the hostility between the two of them.. tsk tsk
marriage though is a TWO-PERSON affair
IT's also the "bringing together" of both families too
unless after marriage they prefer to live their own lives INDEPENDENT of their families

i believe family IS VERY IMPORTANT
cause they are PERMANENT in my life

why think of marriage so early in the relationship already?
hasnt even been to NS
hasnt even work
hasnt even establish a career
hasnt even have the means to support oneself
gettin married? with this mentality and nothing to her name?
its just empty words.. my dear gal and nothin else
the rest of the responses here

http://www.flowerpod.com.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=35772

i know i sound mean
but this is reality

she just need to solve the miscommunication first..
thats the main priority