equality

between men and women

alot of women nowadays are voicing their "concerns" over equality issues
they will on the defensive about their "academia", job prospects and responsibilites or opportunities given aint as good or equal to the men

i am just wondering.. beside these aspects, women should also ask themselves about their emotional status

alot of women will say that they are as good as the guys yet not being appreciated enough etc in the workplace or even in academia matters
BUT are they showing that "equality righteousness" when it comes to relationships?

how do YOU define what makes a good GF/BF?
how do YOU define whether he/she is THE ONE?
base on what aspects?

if you think he is worthy of your love, have you ask yourself
"how to show i am worthy of him too?
if you think he showers you with attention and care, have you ask yourself
"how to return his gestures? how to shower him too?"
if you think he can provide for you, have you ask yourself
"how can i provide for him too?"
if you think he can support you emotionally, have you ask yourself
"how can i help him when he's down?"

in olden times, a woman's worth is ... decided by how and what she can do especially household chores and child rearing
this theory can still be applied in this modern world too
a woman's worth should be decided by how and what she can do for the relationship PLUS household

shoot me down if you think i am wrong
or else defend yourself :)