was talkin to tyler in the afternoon..

relationship suppose to COMPLIMENT your life ...
makes life better, more bearable, more colourful, more meaningful, more joyful...

not to make one fustrated..agonize..fret ..regrets

its so very true..

we cannot bind anyone down with "relationship"

"relationship" links two ppl together .. not chain them together.. its like a stretchable rubberband..
both parties will be leadin their own lives .. however still link as a couple..
their hearts are together yet wat they do might not be together ..
so long as the heart is there..
independent entities

freedom.. its a crucial yet delicate word..

freedom.. if u can give freedom it meant u trust the other half
however thinkin of it another way
freedom might meant not bothered with what the other half is doin..

freedom..how much is adequate for a healthy relationship..
how much is too little or too much..

it depends..
when one is chained too long
one longs for freedom
if one is let off for too long
one seeks solace in a safe santuary

relationship should still be a great part of life..
however life shouldnt revolve around relationship

life needs a balance..

the heart needs somethin to fall back on when it is weary, hurt or just need a breather ..

i think my boredom stems from inbalance in my life..

now tryin to find that delicate balance..

i'm not very free..
i'm just not occupied..