another feminist post

Do ur Bf Gives u allowance every month??? (CLick to read discussion)

I believe in having equal rights and say and also be part of decision-making in MY relationship.
I do not like "my bf should do this do that or decide himself" mentality, cause in the end it takes two hands to clap.

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And after listenin to so many instances of broken relationships told by colleagues, to stingy to revengeful to unfaithful to "too much ideals"
It has made me even more realistic and cautious, stepping up the ladder one step at a time, walking along the long winding road in front of us, one feet in front of another at a time.

Fairytales.. are just fairytales.. they exist only to fill up that void left by realistic world
there's no such thing as princess, prince charming and living in a castle.
it may or may not be applicable to others and i'm not imposing my train of thoughts on anyone

i am just cautioning myself.

Seemingly healthy and happy relationships can change suddenly without warning
even the "love" between both parties cannot resolve issues between them

BUT i have seen my share of relationships whereby BOTH parties are trying hard to make it work.
NOTE BOTH PARTIES.
you cant have one side laying the cement to make the relationship sturdy while the other just idle or having the wrong ideals or "visions" on how things should be.

"LOVE" aint that simple anymore.

and nope, amount of time together wont make a difference.