Wednesday, March 14, 2007

Left on a jet plane

was reading cecilia's tagboard again :P

what's love rejuvenation?
what's love bonding?

(rejuvenation-2. to restore to a former state; make fresh or new again)
(bonding- a close personal relationship that forms between people)

what's your love style?
what's your relationship style?

like i said
different couple has different workings..

some gals preferred to be loved
some gals preferred to give all their love
some gals compromise with the other half and share their love among themselves

so which category are you?

kinda weird when someone said i am "hardworking" in my relationship
cause to me it sounds like "work"
relationship cannot be measure nor does it have a definite value to weighing the efforts done

to me its just a simple theory
i do whatever i like
and what i like is to make him happy
i know he does what he can to make me happy too
its like a merry-go-round theory
the harder u push the merry-go-round
the faster it spins
if there's no one pushing, it will eventually lose its momentum and stop

push=efforts done in this case
if he cannot be the pushing force
i will be the force
if we both give it a push
it will liken to giving relationship more momentum make it spin for longer period
there's no such thing as "enough efforts"
there's no limit on how fast or how long it can go
i just feel that
the more you give
the more you will benefit from it all too

so .. saying goes..
Do not take things for granted
what doesnt happen does not mean it will never happen
what is not said doesnt mean that nothing's to be said

speaking of which..

today's the day my dear left me for Taiwan again
for 5 weeks argh..

met him and his buddy and gf for dinner at RICE GARDEN at cuppage
then went back to pack his stuff
woke at 2am
reached airport at 3am
sent him off at 6+am
unwillingly..
took the train back and reached workplace at 8am

and so..
i will learn to live life without him.. for now
but he will always be with me

and for cecilia... your relationship style i conclude is like plasticine lol
flexible yet can be moulded into definite shape
can be together yet be different entities

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