found a good quote..
somethin that applied to US
"The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree, but still hold hands."
we do DISAGREE on alot of things
both of us are stubborn ..and usually HE is the one who gives in ..
i hate to be caught in some perilous situation and everytime when we disagree on somethin
there will be a WAR OF WORDS
but what matters is that after all that coldness and hostility
we talk it out and try to compromise to resolve it
my emotions do not just FLUCTUATE
it goes to the EXTREME
one moment i am deeply in love with him
one moment i have deep resentment against him
i bought a card that wrote
" I do not want a normal relationship
i want somethin like ours"
i like surprises, passion, suspense and lots of attention
it takes lots of effort to maintain me
so now tryin to tone myself down cause we cant always have the good things in life can we ?
with more commitments meant less time and money to do other leisure activities that i always like
there's no such thing as "relationship will stale with time"
its whether u take the effort to maintain or not..
cannot take your partner for granted
prepare surprises now and then
let them know how much u love them or to remind each other the reason why both of u are together
it doesnt have to involve monetary items
it can be the thoughts, the little gestures, the tone in your voice..
he's not good with his words
but he shows with his actions
his time his money his care
to me that is ..
and he will always remember the various occasions and our anniversaries and wish me and to celebrate together ..
its been almost a yr and half since he's in army
half more yr to go
he's not perfect
BUT i'm not perfect too
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