Some facebook quizzes

Personality By Birthday

You are Number 4

You are very stubborn, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool and helpful. You might repel people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, as you gifted are with understanding other people's problems. If you are a girl, you excel in your studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of your time with girlfriends and you tend to have too much fun with your mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get on with their life and you will be left empty handed. So be careful! You love to spend. Your positive side is that you are always around to help family and friends. You always fall in love with those younger than you. You often live with disappointments but you will take good care of your family. You need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relationships too. You are radical, patient, persistent, and a hit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order.

In your circle of friends, who are you?

The Parental Unit.

You are the group's stand in mother/father. You take charge when everyone else is in chaos, and often, you are the source of nuggets of wisdom. You know your responsibilities, and you know that while everyone wants to have fun, you have to make sure that no one gets way too out of control. Perhaps you are the eldest in the group? Loosen up a bit sometimes. You wouldn't want to be called a kill joy..

AND AND! i got convinced.
CHECK THIS OUT.
Susan Boyle - Britains Got Talent 2009 Episode

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sad to say.. I prepared some plans and stuff for the bf.. but he couldnt make it.
well, time is precious, I will understand.
Study hard.

"To motivate oneself, you need to surround yourself with people who are as motivated if not MORE motivated than you."
this "external locus of control" works well for me.