以前:
女人的婚姻对女人来说是生命，如果错了就不能回头了，所以女人最怕的是嫁错了人．以前的社会女人要对男人从一而终，男人却可以三心二意．
对于男人来说，养老婆和孩子，是天经地义，是男人的责任，所以男人要在外面赚钱，想要赚钱就要选对行业．一般男怕选错行这个行指的是不正经的职业，或者不正当的职业．
现在：
女人可以自由选择自己的婚姻，但是受传统观念影响的人还是很多，所以对于婚姻，女人都想要有结果．所以更要选对人．
在女人地位越来越高的今天，男人的大男子主义犹为明显，事业对大多数男人来说是占第一位的．
Agree? if not there wont be such a high divorce rate out there.
However I dont agree with the career for men part, why must women sacrifice to be the "dutiful stay at home" person? Cant they both share roles? There has been a discussion going on about how women/mothers would want their husbands to share more of the parenting responsibilites or else with the house matters. Sad to say, there isnt approval for month long paternity leave.
If that is the case, working mothers are so much greater than the fathers.
Another reason why I pamper my mum, she works, cooks our meals and pack the house nicely, gossip with us, even babysit my puppy when I am not around.
I will pamper her as much as i want hahahah.
I believe what goes around comes around.
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