will do anythin for food

will stand, hop and spin around for food




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dear's guy friend is recently looking for a gf and some of his main criterias were "can plan ahead ie plan for THEIR future( with the capabilities too)and has comparable qualifications ie similar to his (diploma or above)"

wow.

those in a relationship, ever wondered or asked what were the criterias that your bf had in mind for when looking for a life-long mate... and after getting together, does he hold any expectations of you?

we often hear about gals and what they want in a guy, how about the other way round?

sometimes i think i plan too far ahead and the bf seems to be more focus on the present... different mindsets i guess.. i have been living my current lifestyle for years..time for a change.. and now i will not have to wait much longer.
dear always say i think too much, too complicated and too "ambitious" or greedy.
maybe we just have different yardsticks for measurement..but as long as we have the same "destination" and aims in the end, i guess the process of getting there doesnt matter as much.. i think.

anyway i came across this hypothetical scenerio in the papers..

what would u like to have?

you earn 40K/yr and your neighbours 20K/yr
or you earn 60K/yr and your neighbours 100K/yr

do you look at ABSOLUTE value or RELATIVE value?