I came across a fren's blog whereby she mentioned that she intend to stay on after her overseas studies to gain some work experience before coming back to work and get married etc.
From what I remembered, her bf's been eager to get married.. and has been waiting for her thru her undergrad years..
I really admire his patience and he agreed to wait another 3 years for her to be back and i also admire their faith to do long distance relationship for so long.
Makes me wonder...
Will YOU wait for someone?
How LONG will you wait for the other half to fulfill his/her "personal interests" even if it meant delaying the "combined aim" that you two have made?
Will you "fulfill combined aim" or "fulfill personal interest" first?
What will you do with your life while waiting for the other?
and another question that makes me ponder..
I had a meetup with a friend on mon, talking about her ex bf and reason for breakup was "they aint compatible"
what is deem compatible?
from what i see..
my friend works hard, earns and spends her own. she gets stressed out but she managed to overcome it and even plans to upgrade..
and what does the guy do? nitec, citin "no time to upgrade qualifications", not even 20 bucks on hand. and not even willing to communicate ..
and its never your fault my dear,
he is definitely not your type, and he is right, in another word, you two are incompatible.
Will you want to live with a guy who just want to take things easy? "earn barely enough" type and always want to slack and relax?
he will just be cast at the back of society and be left behind.
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