went out with friends heh
had so much fun just nuain over cakes and some drinks .. even walkin around till my blisters are showin ..

eunice had to leave early so left the four of us ... went explorin around ..

went CHANGIN APPETTIES at marina square to have cakes.. but waffle cannot make it ..
overall still not too bad but abit too sweet for my likin ..

some random photos i took ..
too many to post heh

at CANDY EMPIRE






eunice's waffle and iced lychee


eng sim's ice mocha


oooh...

To the princess ~hope u enjoyed yourself

now bloggin at dear's place..

hmm had lots of fun at MZ BBQ heh

was drizzlin while on my way there ..kinda worried how the bbq will turn out ...
BUT from wat kel said .. they kinda "sheltered" themselves and bbq hahah
i wonder how ..

but anyway i tink once again my sense of directions suck
i took the wrong bus and landed at some hdb area then had to walk over in the rain ..
then reached there almost 8 lol
almost all had eaten and kel bein the ever gentleman helped me bbq some food hee

so i just stood around and helped myself to the food
it's really nice woh
i dun really fancy seafood .. but i liked the fish hee although in my opinion the chili's not spicy enough for me
well well .. i live on chili padi >.<

made a few new friends over there .. the one who left the most impression is the one who got as red as a lobster wahahahah

well well
i tot he will be some nerdy lookin guy but turned out still ok hahahah
and then there are the usual faces plus some of her NIE friends and a couple hee
they look very young woh .. seriously, if u dun tell me their age i wouldnt have guessed it right ..

had lots of fun taking pics too
my gosh
my first time posin for the pics ..
cutesy poses
the gals taught me "1,2,5" LOL
thanks
had lots of fun
shall get the pics and post up soon
if u allow me to ^^

now
spendin the little precious time left with my dear ..
he's packin while i am typin now
today gonna accompany him to the airport to send him off ..
so leavin around 11pm and sendin him off around 2am ..

its ok ..
dun worry
i can find my way home ..
(heh progress package comes in handy now )
its all worth it ..for him ..
and then it will be 3 weeks without him..

although i know some wun agree with wat i am doin ..
hmm..
the "er shi shi xiao nu peng you"

my course and flight schedule has been confirmed ..
be gone for a week
i know
still early .. BUT

eager
anticipating
anxious
panicky!

why ?
cause i am the ONLY SINGAPOREAN there
-_-"

hope everything goes smoothly
hope i dun get lost there
hope i can understand the course
hope i can make friends there .. go out sight-seein together..
hope i can find a local who drives too
hope i get to see international "eye-candy" :P
hope can borrow a camera
hope can borrow woollen jacket( its 11-17degress out there)
hope US dollar drops more
hope i get to find those warehouse (its clearance sale season~)
hope i have time to shop

on a diff note:
hope dear doesnt forget abt me when in taiwan
hope he will be fine there
hope i wun cry when i send him off tml night ..

its been YEARS since i took neoprint with them ...
din know the puri machines are so hard to navigate now... or am i the one left behind.. hmm

but seriously ..i think the older we get the younger we Look LOL

met my sec sch friends for day out shoppin!

its been a long time since i walked the streets on a WEEKDAY afternoon LOL

went SUki Sushi at cineleisure to eat.. not bad.. the sushi's selection is nothin .. who cares?
dun have to eat sushi ..
we ordered those on the menu instead hahah












our breaktime
there's three shades if u see carefully hahah
iced teh, iced yuan yang, iced coffee cho
oh btw yuan yang is teh PLUS coffee

walked through taka, cineleisure and fareast but sadly cant find much things tat fit me ..

wanna get the birthday gift... also cant find..
hmm..
shall think of alternatives..
anyway my loot ..



at the end of the day ..





^^
while waitin for the bus..
backgrd's too bright though ..

now anticipatin the BBQ heh ..

and dear's bookout tonight

was waitin in queue for the bus when someone waved at me
heh
presently
PCK
wahahah
his initials made up PCK and he's in ME and always in boots so .. PCK suits him well ..
then he's the only guy i know who has all types of vehicle licenses even CRANE
yup ..
ambitious eh?

it's been a long time since i last saw him
since rotaract .. cause he graduated a yr earlier and ever since he went into NS never catch up anymore..

my all time fav vids tat make me LOL

beyonce
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSjV-0us2kc

breakdance
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJyKa7Cye7Y
i love his arms and shoulders and of course his moves.. slick ~

no words can describe how i feel whenever i am with her
she chase away all my blues with her jokes
the way she talk
the way she go " akira akira "
lol

my nuaing buddy

although today somethin happen to her durin the endin of our chilling out
i hope her mood's still good and positive~








wat matters most is US.. how we wan things to be
.. the rest is just a blur..


jun took this pic of me .. heh
feelin like a narcissist LOL


today finally after days of frizziness
had a good hair day at the end





no no i am not being OVERLY narcissist
its RARE that i get a good hair day mah ...

Your Element is Metal

Your power colors: white, gold, and silver Your energy: contracting Your season: fall You are persistent (and maybe even a little bit stubborn). If you see something you want, you go for it. You have a lot of strength, and it's difficult to get you down. Very logical, you tend to analyze everything going on in your life.

What Element Are You?

well well

one of my many self tests hahaha

i know ...

someone told me i dun need such tests to describe wat kind of person i am ..

its for ppl to find out, discover with more personal interaction

i am not usin such test to determine wat kind of person or to protray wat kind of person i am to others.. its hmm.. self-discovery?

sometimes i know my traits .. but dunno how to put in words or which type of emotional bein i am .. these posts help to bring it out or to elaborate my pts

and by addin words to such traits i can better iron out my indifferences or watever bad qualities i have ..at least u try to..

now the sky's gettin grey again .. makin me feelin grey

like some virus infectin my programme.. slowly corruptin my bit by bit ... like wat C

said in her blog ..

"it lacks the excitement n satisfaction n hence leaving spots of lack lustre"

i tink my life needs some polishin too..

this is wat i meant .. monochrome.. my life hahahah

lookin at machines.. QC .. labwork ..

argh ..

i tink i need more human interaction

i enjoy talkin to my students

hahah

bad habit oops

shant say "my" should say THE students

i enjoyed talkin to them.. i have undergrad, postgrad, PHD, post-doc and wat have u..

they widen my horizons with their diff tales and adventures esp from their own homelands and their knowledge

i know a little about their culture, beliefs and also struggles here in a foreign land..personal accounts..

i believe "wat u do upon others, others will do upon u "

i will try my best, go all out for them .. in the meantime i hope to learn from them

nvm the weird or last min requests

if the request not too atrocious i will do it for them hahah even it meant OT

the only condsolences i have is when i chill out with ppl

small grps of friends over cakes, dinner, coffee,supper? lol

i tink i had toned down..

although i miss the days of campin out with big grps .. my various ccas in poly wahahha

SU, Rotaract ..its somewat messy in a big grp

some popularity or power struggle will occur

i think my mind cannot be left "at ease" for long

met a friend who's somewat the "keep to himself" sort back in poly

then realise we have common friends and one thing leads to another

became buddy of me and jun

then from him knew more and found an almost "like-minded" one in music..

i am not tat "hard-core" in my music taste wat .. i tink its normal or should i say streamline

heh

its always better to know more ppl

regardless of the diff backgrds

the more the merrier as they will expose u to the diff sides of life .. and the diff perspective to life

i am not content being a "wall-flower"

dun tell me to "be seen and not heard"

nonsense

lol dear prefer his woman to be "quiet"

i am too vocal for my own good and wat he will deem as bein stubborn

hmm..

my rocker friends .. some took part in SUperBand

though not close to them .. but at least i am an aquaintance ... i hope ..

and i can tell ppl

"i know those ppl" give me a sense of pride to see someone i know givin their best

reason why there's a rainbow in my blog?

cause i just created a thunderstorm

.. not yet a typhoon

dear will know wat kind of "typhoon" i am capable of..

why thunderstorm ?for wat reason? only jun knows and i shant elaborate

my ramblings..

still waitin for the trainer to come over

she called in the morn said she will come over to take a look cause she's passin here ..

before i can ask more she hung up

still thinkin whether its a trainin session anot
but lookin at the time now its 2+ and she's not here yet

dun think will have trainin

sigh
i hate last min

have to reject a student's request to do samples in the afternoon cause need to wait for her ..

hmm.. well well at least she's comin
hard to get her down for trainin sessions..
and its been probed by other students for quite some time already
sorry .. i already informed her.. cant force her right? she needs to plan her schedule

then mornin was spent zappin some documents and manuals relatin to the rooftop water systems
need to read up more ..
hmm
like readin scientific papers hahah

as u might have known by now
i work in a lab environment thus we have Distilled Water Off the tap wahahah
and there's a whole lot of equip at the rooftop to make it happen
and i am suppose to be in charge of maintenance
-_-"

maybe i shall post pics here
soon..

as long as there's sun i'll be alright with it
hahaha when it rains rooftop gets scary

its a fine weather right now ..
but my tummy not feelin well .. maybe too much coffee or instant stuff
dear's gonna nag at me for eatin too much instant stuff
but canteen's so far away and i'm tryin to save hee

maybe need to detox .. ooh
and i am anticipatin MZ's bbq
hahaha

with "Jia Yao and Mei Nu"
wat can i ask for ?
oh and hopefully have shuai ge
:P

its only after the rain will u see the rainbow on the other side ..

just pics to chase the mon blues away ..
tot i slept enough .. hmm..
maybe not hahah

i tink i beginnin to like my hair again hahah
saw mh's hair .. so gian ..
control..
restraint..
impulsion...
hahahhaha
reminds me of my younger days when i had short hair till ehm ..poly?LOL

i'm too weak..
my friends have been askin me how's my progress in runnin
sigh ..
i let myself down ...

MUST DRAG LAZY ASS to RUN ..
*keeps mental note*

only under the sun can u see the faint colour of it ..
now i feel like cuttin short

someone said i look chirpy in this pic hahaha
it must be the reflection ...

his mum and sis asked ," what happened? suffered any setbacks? he made u angry? why cut? "
well well
they said the cut not even and not suitable for me.. too many layers.
argh wat to do now ?
just have to wait for my hair to grow out and trim again LOL

still tryin to get used to this hairstyle
so used to seein myself in long black hair ..

after 3 hours two tries of dyeing..

even took the very light brown dye ..

in the end .... result is this

the stylist was so worried ..
he keep askin whether i dyed my hair black before..
i told him why should i ..







ARGH ...

make do with this colour bah ..

the stylist said with more washes the colour will be more prominent..

hopefully

then can give dear a surprise tml lol

kinda regret cuttin my hair
but oh well wats done is done so no pt bitchin abt it .. gettin too frizzy for my comfort ..

feel like changin again .. this time new hair colour .. heh

my hair has been BLACK FOR YEARS
gettin borin .. shall add some colours into my hair maybe add colours to my monochrome life too
maybe..

hmm ... shall see .. dear's outfield and will be back only tml night ..

sigh
miss his hugs lots
his assurance
his promise
his physical being..

simple things like touchin my face or my hair ..
huggin me tightly ..

argh .. sound kinda lovesick dun i -_-"

anyway this week's been fun
hung out with some great friends and colleagues too

thanks baobei jun~

got this from an email forwarded by colleague ...

so very true ..

Sex cues ruin men's decisiveness

Catching sight of a pretty woman really is enough to throw a man's decision-making skills into disarray, a study suggests

The more testosterone he has, the stronger the effect, according to work by Belgian researchers.....

...

"They are looking for opportunities to pass on their genes."

so any guys can confirm with me ?
hahahahah

the weather had been grey these few days ..

feelin under the weather ..

monotonous ..

monochrome life..





bleh~

i wan a cuddle ..
cant wait for him to hold me tight ...

oh! did i say i saw a raccoon?
beside my block is a big field and behind is a long stretch of canal with pavement.. surrounder by lots of trees..

was walkin back on tue when i saw the raccoon .. it came suddenly from behind then stared at me ..abit freaky cause its eyes were shining.. ehm .. reflective the light from the lamp post .. then it ran away into the darkness...

my gosh ! i stayed there for years and first time i seen a raccoon ..

i tink its a raccoon
hahhahahaha


now thinkin of it again

i wouldnt know the diff btw raccoon or civet cat
wahahah -_-"

oh i saw this pic from BBC

pretty eh?


its an image of a "BLACK HOLE"

the pattern of gravitational waves produced by merging black holes done by simulations on a supercomputer
hmm..

most time when i have free time in office i will browse thru websites such as BBC
hahah most ppl wun believe bah..

i love readin the Science/Nature segment

the only thing i dun read abt is politics.. esp in spore ..

and lastly

Currency Conversion Results

Singapore Dollar Bid Ask
USD=1 Apr 20 1.6005 1.6005 1.6010


as much i wan the economy to be good

US DOLLAR PLS DROP MORE ! :P

pics from tue
at MAGIC WOK
finally
dinner !
ordered ehm.. shark fin's hotplate toufu, kai lan, sweet N sour chicken ~ hee
no pics of food this time
cause too hungry and they serve so slow
wanted to take a grp pic of the food but couldnt wait until all the dishes were served






a friend came along haha

well .. two is comfy three is merrier!


chit chattin at the esplanade .. sadly no wind


hai hai .. shaky hand ..
but its alright
blurry effect create an air of mystery to the pic LOL


acting cool

the night view of the cityscape from esplanade

was shocked at an article in today's straits times

as usual, i sat down at my table to have my caffeine fix when i flipped thru the papers..
first page on the HOME segment

this is the title

JC BOY COMMIT SUICIDE, CONVINCED PRIVATE PARTS DEEM TO SMALL

i nearly fell from my chair

WTH was tat?

commit suicide becoz of tat?

he's from a reputable JC, has a gf and supportin mum who were assurin him abt his "inadequacy"

he had such a bright future ahead of him

his mum brought him to see the doc who said his is normal asian size..

i told my mum abt this piece of news

she was sayin," what is he comparin himself to? ang moh? so long for wat?"

-_-"

sigh ..

i tink there's not enough exposure to sex education here

anythin to do with sex is so hushed up, taboo.. forbidden

u cant always hide things from youngsters

the more the topic of sex is deem taboo.. the more they are curious abt it

u cant stop youngsters from havin sex

no matter how intensive the sex education talks u made them sit through are..

there's always a small percentage that same may go "astray"

so i always think its better to educate on
"ABSTINENCE" AND "PROTECTION-SAFE SEX"

well .. i dunno wat that JC guy was thinkin abt

how he knew tat his was small ?

i have a feelin its coz his friends somehow saw it and teased him about it ..

i mean.. how he know his is small until he compared to others right?

gosh.. guys.. sizes=ego?

the mind is such a powerful tool

i tink he doesnt really wan to end his life tat way .. must be some frequent
"reminders" from others that made him be so conscious of his physical outlook

sigh ...

i feel sad for his gf and mum who had been so supportive..

i hope the ppl who teased him ..if there are any..
reflect on wat they did to him ..

peer pressure .. takes its toll ..

SINGAPORE : A man has been sentenced to 32 years in jail and 24 strokes of the cane for raping five of his daughters.

The offences took place between December 2003 and June 2005.

Police arrested the accused after one of his daughters reported being raped.

The names of the accused and the victims have been withheld by the court to protect the victim's family.

When Justice Tay Yong Kwang read his judgment in his courtroom at the Supreme Court, he said the father in this case wielded strong influence over his entire family.

Justice Tay said, "It was a sad and shameful abuse of this trust and respect that allowed him to do what he did with the five daughters. Equally, it was because of this trust and respect that no violence accompanied each occasion of violation as none was needed to make the daughters submit to him."

He added, "Like any other young girl, I am sure they appreciated their father's love but simply could not comprehend why it was taking a perverse dimension."

Justice Tay reassured the eldest daughter that she did the right thing by reporting the case to the police.

He said the girls have nothing to be ashamed of as the wrongdoing was on the part of their father, who has admitted his mistake and so spared his family the heartache of testifying against him.

The judge said it was a difficult task for the court to sentence the main provider of a family.

But Justice Tay said the family must accept the accused not contributing financially for a long time and make adjustments.

In passing sentence, the judge said the rapes were systematic and sickening.

The victims' childhood innocence was aborted by the man, who turned against his own offspring.

This case was also unique in that so many daughters fell prey to their own father.

After sentencing, the judge allowed the accused and his family to meet for 15 minutes. - CNA /ct








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The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Acts of Service
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results

Acts of Service:		9
Physical Touch:		6
Quality Time:		6
Words of Affirmation:		6
Receiving Gifts:		3

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Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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reason why guys always need "release" wahahahhahah





sorry if its offensive :P

this mornin
after stylin and less "explosive"











hmm...

some said neater some said spunky
wahahhaha
some said will get very frizzy
well well ... see how things go

no more sweetie-pie image now
i think HE will be disappointed but oh well

feel like gettin a change of image so ..

haven cut such a fringe inYEARS

comments abt my new hairstyle?